Loving One Another

Today is Thursday of Holy Week, often called "Maundy Thursday." Maundy comes from the Latin word Mandatum meaning commandment and Christians remember Jesus' famous commandment to his disciples to "Love one another as I have loved you." John 15:12

This morning in my email box was a meditation by Richard Rohr who was reflecting on the gospel of John and how there is no Last Supper scene in John's gospel. Instead we have the story of Jesus washing the disciples' feet.

Rohr writes, "Perhaps John realized that after seventy years the other Gospels had been read. He wanted to give a theology of the Eucharist that revealed the meaning behind the breaking of the bread. He made it into an active ritual of servanthood and solidarity... Peter symbolizes all of us as he protests, "You will never wash my feet!" (John 13:8). But Jesus answers, "If I do not wash you, you can have nothing in common with me." That is strong! We all find it hard to receive undeserved love from another. For some reason it is very humiliating to the ego. We all want to think we have earned any love that we get by our worthiness or attractiveness. So Jesus has to insist on being the servant lover. Thank God, Peter surrenders, but it probably takes the rest of his life to understand."
(Drawn from Radical Grace: Daily Meditations by Richard Rohr, p. 143, day 154 Source: The Great Themes of Scripture).

We often get the "love others" part of this commandment, but it is often difficult to recognize that "loving one another" is a two-way street involving both giving and receiving. As I am thinking about this, the refrain to one of my favorite hymns comes to mind:

Won't you let me be your servant

Let me be as Christ to you

Pray that I may have the grace

To let you be my servant, too

Not a bad prayer for this Holy Week.

#44

The number 44 has taken on great significance for me during the past eight years. The number refers to the page on which the hymn, "God Will Take Care of You" appears in the Elmhurst Hymnal, published in 1921 and used by our congregation for many years. I know this not because I research old hymnals, but because of my relationship with the Davies family.

"#44" is a code in the Davies' family. #44 appears on every greeting card that is sent to a loved one and #44 is a greeting that is shared when a loved one departs for the day, or for a trip, that will take him or her away for awhile. #44 is shorthand for the message of this hymn: remember that God is with you, loves you, and will take care of you.

This past Sunday, our east lobby was dedicated to the memory of Jack Davies. It was heartwarming for me to hear the testimony of several of our members who remember the gracious and exuberant welcome Jack offered to everyone who entered our doors when he served as our "doorkeeper" for many years. I heard about how just anticipating the love and warmth which which someone would be received helped them make it through the week.

Today Jack's son, Jim, serves St. John's in the formal role of "doorkeeper" and is beautifully carrying out his father's legacy. I have often thought that the name "doorkeeper" doesn't quite fit the openness and graciousness with which he greets all who enter our doors. Jim is fantastic! While Jim has a formal role at St. John's, he is just one of many people who now extend the extravagant hospitality that is regularly experienced at St. John's. On Sunday, when I heard about how people could remember a specific greeting from decades ago, I realized anew how very important hospitality and welcome are.

There are many ways we can communicate welcome, love and care. One way is through special code.

#44